I have been fascinated with the dynamics of all human relationships for years, and purely by chance found my niche interest in providing dating advice and unofficial matchmaking to friends and family.

My formal education is in medicine, and I am a board certified physician practicing rural emergency medicine in low resource communities. Over the last 10 years I have come to realize the profound truth that connected relationships—both romantic and platonic—are transformative in fostering health, happiness, and emotional well-being, not only for my patients but also for my loved ones and myself.

Over the years, I have witnessed friends struggle with the complexities of online dating, navigate the uncertainties of courtship, and grapple with the frustration of not finding the right partner. As an observer, it has been particularly challenging to watch, knowing that the right match often exists —waiting to be discovered with a thoughtful, intentional approach.